If you don’t know me (through this blog or otherwise), I talk and write a lot about squirting. I mean. A lot. I should probably have a ‘squirt’ category. The first time a wrote about my own squirting experience was almost four months ago. Since then, I’ve been working on my technique. Okay, that’s a lie. It’s hard to have any sort of ‘technique’ when you’re first starting out. BUT, I have been squirting way more often than not, and I think it is finally safe to say that I, Miss Vixations, am a SQUIRTER!
*cheers! applause! unlimited free dildos!*
What? Yea, I wish.
I have been opening myself up to the opportunity as much as possible, allowing myself to feel that pleasure regardless of the situation, regardless of any external factors. But when I say ‘opening up,’ I don’t just mean spreading my legs and waiting for it to happen. I mean releasing my mind into a separate place, a place where there is absolutely nothing clouding my brain except for the feeling of deep, full, ecstatic pleasure. I mean allowing my body to embrace every tiny feeling, reacting completely to every single breath, every single touch. I’ve found that this type of orgasm is something completely separate from any other orgasm I’ve felt. Sometimes the experience is about the place, or the time of day, or is more funny than anything else, and even though I still get off, it’s more of like a bonus than the focus of the experience. This, this squirting O, is something else. It’s a very active thing. The sole purpose of this orgasm is the opening of the mind and body, the continuous pleasure, the screaming and heavy breathing that lasts more than just a few seconds. The complete abandonment of fear, rejection, people, places, everything. Kind of like yoga! Right??
Finding that place where you allow yourself to feel nothing, but also everything at the same time.
I would say about 80% of this is mental, and the other 20% is knowing your body, knowing what feels good to you. My advice? Let go. Completely and utterly. Let go of anything and everything in those moments leading up to your ultimate pleasure. Let go of your day. Your personality. Your appearance. Even your partner. Let go of everything that does not involve your vagina. Close your eyes. Your g-spot. Your clit. Your inner thighs. Whatever makes you go wild. And DO NOT LET YOUR MIND WANDER FROM THAT. The insane amount of pleasure you’ll feel from it will be completely worth it. As will the moments of clarity you’ll feel when it’s over.
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On that note, Fuckday Friday was a success! And I’d like to make it a weekly occurrence. Want to participate? Submit your juicy, erotic story here. Don’t forget to include your alias. All posts will be anonymous, sexy, and hopefully get your libido going to start up the weekend.
Get your thinking caps on for Fuckday Friday, but then take them off while you’re orgasming! I can’t wait to hear all about your giant O’s! That’s kind of weird! But really! Orgasms for everyone! Yay!
Listening to: Ambulance LTD – Primitive (The Way I Treat You)




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That’s so Tantra of you…
Honestly, the best thing we women can learn is to just LET. GO. Orgasms can be like meditation…I know I sound like a hippie lunatic but they can literally get you closer to God…however you imagine God to be.
For realz.
Oooh, I know nothing about Tantra, but now I am interested! Is that what that all means? And yes I agree about the God part! Or a higher being, or whatever. I’m not religious, but I do believe in a higher power and a higher state of existence. I thank that power for orgasms.
The plan sounds great. Unfortunately, I think my OCD/way too active mind will ruin any chance I have of that. The more I try to forget about everything, the more I start thinking about everything else.
Well then you need it more than anyone! It helps if you’re a little tipsy. Not drunk, but tipsy, so that your mind moves slower and it’s easier to let it all go.
Hey, remember that time when I blogged about how everything in my life was shit? Except for the amazing sex I just had? That’s because I SQUIRTED FOR THE FIRST TIME. I have yet to do it again, but I’m working on it
OMG that’s amazing!!! You failed to mention that minor detail… Haha! Good for you! I’m so proud
Keep it going mama!
And who was your first squirting O with? Mr rings???? I cant remember. I love the Fuckday Friday idea but I am a little nervous to read them in China and then get horny and lose my bet! So I might have to wait to read them, but maybe one lonely night when its hot and sweaty here I will contribute. HA. Miss you.
DID YOU NOT BRING YOUR VIBRATOR?
Do I have to send you a package?
My first squirting O was back with my high school boyfriend, but I had no idea what it was and it freaked me out so then anytime I felt like that again I tried to hold it back. Once I realized it was a real thing and not pee or something I started getting back into it.
dear vixen,
what are your views on anal sex?
Dear Tlayudita,
You can see my views from a few months ago here:
http://www.vixationsblog.com/2010/01/02/i-may-not-know-what-i-like-but-i-definitely-know-what-i-dont-like/
Although I must say, my perceptions have changed a bit since then. I still think it’s weird, but I don’t know if I really hate it? Need to give it some more attention I think…
So interesting. I wonder what it would have been like to discover it, to learn it… if I hadn’t been one from the very beginning…
HMM.